BECAUSE THERE'S NO REASON NOT TO BE HAPPY

Lindy.She's one of the woman i really look up upon to.

Going through this video made me think of a friend whom have been close to my heart.
A hopeless romantic who would give in all her effort and time for a man that she knows who was never appreciative of her,a person who always never fail to put relationship in the top priority and at times tend to neglect people around her who actually cares for her.Recently,she's been uptight over another man whom she know would never satisfy the love that she needs and feeling frustrated over how her 21st birthday might turn out unsuccessful when it isn't arriving,not until half a year later.

Its very obvious that we are world's apart because i never thought of relationship as something that could feed on my happiness,maybe not after 10 years of staying together and staring at each other's wrinkled skin and shaggy balls.I have always thought that birthdays are occasions that are suppose to be unplanned because people who care would do something sweet and presents are better off as a sumptuous dinner where everyone sits down and laugh.
Ironically,there's still this burning passion in me to save her from her turmoil every single time she comes to me after a heartbreak even though i think my advices never changed from the first day she regarded me as a friend to confide in.

Dear X,for more than one time i see the green in your eyes when people shower concern over me instead of you.
However,have you ever realised that instead of staying out thinking of the ways you could jazz up the party or even changing the dates or venues of the celebration to suit everyone's preferences,you could spend sometime talking them to them on twitter,planning someone's birthday celebration or even paying small attention to little things that are happening around your friends?
There's really no need to worry about the attendance because if you are worth it,people would be willing to invest their time for you,even if it meets attending two parties within a day.

Have you ever thought that you would have more time for yourself if you wouldn't spend all of them investing time on a guy who only knows how to give you false hope?Have you ever thought of posting photos on instagram because you really want to show people your true self from the pictures and not because you are looking forward to him liking every single on of them? 

The more you give,the more you would receive.
Sometimes when all is down and cold,don't think of expectations.Why not channel out your negativity to giving,and maybe you will start to see light in your days?

I don't think there are secrets to true happiness because anyone can create them.
My words may seem harsh but i hope you understand because i really want you to be happy,more than anyone else.